Valentine's Day coming up.

Oh it's been YEARS since I had a decent date with my husband. The presence of a live-in maid in our household has made it easier for us to leave our 2 girls at home. 1 toddler and 1 sassy little girl. 

Both girls sleep with me in our Master Bedroom. My husband sleeps in my older daughter's bunk bed. This has been the arrangement since our 2nd child was born a year ago. 

There has been no romance. It's like a sexless Japanese husband and wife. It doesn't bother me or him from what I can tell. I know our marriage is in shambles. Can someone suggest something? 

When we do anything romantic it feels awkward. Like how it feels when someone mistakes your brother for your boyfriend. That kinda incestuous awkward feeling.